How to be an Alpha Male

Posted on April 11, 2008

Becoming an alpha male is a vital step towards attracting a
girl. In this article, you’ll learn the
secrets fro developing this personality trait.

It is said by many dating gurus that being a cocky and funny
male attracts women. These are known as alpha males. It is a known fact that
both men and women are attracted to leadership. No one really likes a follower
that can’t think for themselves. So how can being an alpha male benefit your
dating life? Well, you will have to balance out your leadership. By being the
strongly guided male with a strong set direction, you must also have a side to
you that listens to the other person and connecting with them. Boasting about
yourself and being comedic will only get you but so far. If you take time to listen
to the girl, you will be able to figure out what she is about and how you can
move on that.

The combo of being the cocky/funny guy who listens will earn
you major points with the ladies. This shows them that you are confident, yet
easy going. Power attracts women, it is a known fact. Another option you will
need to make is whether you want to be the nice guy or the jerk. By being too
much of one of the above combos can leave you on either side. By being cocky
and somewhat mean, you will be portrayed as the jerk and if you are quieter and
listen often, you will be known as the nice guy. There is a problem with both
scenarios.

Being the nice guy can be a problem because while listening
to the woman’s problems, you may get caught up in the woman’s emotions. When
she is angry, you will be so as well and if she is sad, it will rub off on you.
When she shows anxiety about becoming sexually involved with you, you will
become anxious as well. This can make your romance with her a complete bust.

Now, by being the jerk, you will be the headstrong guy that
steps all over any and everybody to get where you’re trying to go, no matter
who you hurt in the process; even the woman you’re trying to court. For a jerk
to win others have to lose and no one wants to be a part of that option.

It is important that you remain confident and strong about
your decisions, but you must also take heart to what others are feeling and
what they have to say. This will make you the ultimate guy to be around. You
will be admired and desired by the lady you are dating or trying to date. By
listening to the women you are trying to attract, you will earn points for
being a nice guy and by staying strong and confident throughout the
conversation will boost you up there with the jerk category, but they simply
cancel each other out; making you the alpha male. Being a little of both is the
way to go. You can be the joker and cocky guy , but you need to know when the
joking stops and when the substance begins.

You should also be open-minded at trying new things. Guys
that aren’t afraid of taking risks attract even the hottest of women. This also
goes for taking risks with women. Put yourself out there and women will surely
scoop you up.

About the author

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